Boundaries
What a Real Boundary Is — and What It Is Not
A boundary is not a threat. It is not an ultimatum. It is a decision you make about what you will and will not participate in.
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There is a version of "staying calm" that is actually self-erasure. Most men who end up in my office have been practicing it for years without knowing it had a name.
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A boundary is not a threat. It is not an ultimatum. It is a decision you make about what you will and will not participate in.
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The goal is to be heard — not to win. These are not the same thing, and confusing them is what makes most difficult conversations fail.
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You make good decisions at work. You are respected. And yet at home, you second-guess everything. Here is why that happens.
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One comes from fear, frustration, or the desire to escape. The other comes from a decision. You can learn the difference.
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When something has been happening for long enough, it starts to feel normal. That does not mean it is okay.
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Staying firm does not require getting louder. In fact, the quieter you can be while holding your ground, the more powerful the message.
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